Thursday, 29 November 2007

Doing Something

I just saw a sexist ad from T-Mobile and I sent them a message saying that I will not be purchasing their goods or services as long as their sexist ads persist. I'll stick by that, though I may not apply it to every business. I don't use T-Movile, so it won't be hard to not use it. In fact, I had no desire to spend money on T-Mobile, so boycotting it does not impact me. It also wouldn't impact T-Mobile. They didn't get my money before, they won't get it now, but now they know that sexism will not earn them my money, ever.

Clean and Clear

The Clean and Clear acne treatment does a better job than Proactive, according to the commercial. If true, thats a good thing, because acne, especially the worst acne, can be terrible for a teenager. Even if no one says anything, the kid still sees the problem. As a kid, I was more traumatized by being teased for crying. My weight was never a big issue, except in my head. I mean I lived in my body, I looked in the mirror, and I felt the humiliation of not being as athletic as everyone else.

Fun Fact: I once saw a book at the library about re-thinking American gym classes. "It's about time," I thought, and I scanned the book on a break from my reference job. It intrigued me as I do think physical education is very important. But 11 years of gym never taught me the things I needed to know to be fit. I only learned those things in my college gym class. I learned about the heart rate and that it didn't matter what what I did. So what if I couldn't run? I could walk and it was ok. At that point in my life, I still thought I could change people's minds, or at least have a discussion with them, even if they had never met me. So I emailed the author, telling her that I saw her book in the library. I asked how she would work with those children that might not ever get the skills of sports, but that still needed physical activity in their lives, children like I was. In her response, she asked me where I bought her book.

I was insulted. This woman arguing that she was really an academic, and that physical education was crucial to society and life, only cared that I contributed to her income with my purchase. I didn't bother to respond, thinking, "she's just a gym teacher."


Kids with acne do not need to be teased to feel bad about their acne. They see it in the mirror and they think it is ugly. If something works even better than Proactive, which works well, then great! We could eventually cure acne. Then I see the before and after. I thought I was seeing the after picture. The girl had some brown spots on her face, very faint. But it was the before. She had acne? The second girl was the same. Those girls looked like me, or any other woman, simply without make-up. I have differently colored spots all over my face. I also have a natural redness in my cheeks that doesn't look really look good. I feel more confident and professional in make-up, and people think my skin looks awesome. Really, a co-worker asked me, my 265 pound self, if I ever thought about modeling because of my skin. I was flattered, then told her the story about the time I was approached to be a model in a mall and declined because "I had to put my groceries in the fridge." And people have said that I don't look that different without my make-up, but I feel different. With make-up, I don't have to think about my face, so I can think about other things, like my job. I don't think there is anything wrong with doing what you can to feel confident.

But the women in that commercial were not suffering from acne. I've seen acne, I've seen the faces scarred by acne, and that was not acne. The Proactive commercials have far more convincing before pictures. Do not lie to me, as an adult, and do not fool any teenage girls into thinking they have acne too, when they don't.

Thursday, 08 November 2007

Where are the other man-haters?

Hearing old men endorse candidates that they thought would be the most pro-life, then realizing that they were not referring to preventing deaths in war or violence, but preventing women from having control over their body. After all, all men are created equal. All the movies and books I'm told I should like, that turn out to be written about men, for men, by men. It is always men.

If women talk about themselves, its a "chick flick", or just crap. You know what? Most modern all-guy bands suck ass. It is a bunch poorly worded mental masturbation and should shut up. Tarentino films are boring and cliched.

Where are the women that agree with me? Where are these other angry man-haters out there? Why can't we get together and vent our frustration in the safety of our own home? Why can't we just vent?

Wednesday, 07 November 2007

Ignore it and it might go away

Alternet is posting about porn again. The articles ask some questions, to which porn fans have a knee jerk reaction. Porn is made for men, because women never get stimulated by sights and sounds, apparently. Porn has also gotten more violent, apparently. Young boys are trying to get girls to do anal, this according to a friend of mine that worked with some teenage boys. I think boys have always been more obsessed with sex than girls, but now they're trying to see if they can stick their dicks in as many holes as possible. What is wrong with our culture that this is important to half of it?

Everything.

Whatever - the Carl's Jr. commercial insults me, but I don't eat at Carl's Jr. I don't eat fast food period. My money is where my mouth is, but that won't stop them from spewing crap. Whatever, I'm tired of it. Movies about men, for men, I'm not watching them. When Hollywood wants my $70k a year, they can make me something that is worth watching. Like the drama about the reign of maybe the best female player the patriarchy ever had, Elizabeth I. I'll watch that.